bedtimes stories and tales: 2010

精神病: its a rough and non descriptive, misleading and negative word to describe a wide range of mental and mood phenomenal/obstacles/problems and illnesses (most people do not have the professional medical knowledge) so they related this word with many negative things that some may relate but most are not even related to this word

the media broadcast the wrong and uneducated image of this word in order to get audience/some for jokes and fun, this have a disastrous effect to which even the patient with this unwellness discriminate themselves and do not accept themselves

some because they cannot accept themselves, they refuse to seek professional medical advice when they become unwell-because they are thinking-if i see the doctor it means that i am ill, it means i am crazy or mad or lunatic

but is this true??

毒品=不受控制(質量/劑量) 的精神科藥物=uncontrolled quality and quantity/dosage of mental health drugs

mental health drugs must be taken under prescription of a medical professional

if taken non-prescripted would have uncontrolled effect (harming yourself or others both physically and mentally) and may lead to life harming issues and situations

"all medicines are drugs but not all drugs are medicine"

變態: we must understand that everything has a reason including all of our outputs (what we say(speeches) and how we act (actions))

key is to find out why they do it or say it and what is their original motive, what is the cause and what triggers their speech and action

we would find all people of this word is very true and pure and do their actions for a very innocent/simple reason/motive but how/what they carry out may not be that correct or accepted by the public

counseling

被輔導不等於有病

great showman of our time

阿信與阿扁

自利利他/她=THE purpose of any good religion

利人利己

just a thought

who taught Jesus, Buddha and Allah what they know and to be how/who they are...

Thursday, March 18, 2010

impaired and gifted sparkle centre

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

長處與資優

http://www.youtube.com/user/brightmodels#p/u/3/Ef4bE37oIas

http://www.youtube.com/user/brightmodels#p/u/2/MKSauK7E7BE

Friday, March 12, 2010

learning-impaired with gifted 學習障礙的天才

學習障擬 Learning-impaired

無比較=無分別心=無是非善惡=空

this blog is being continued in this blog below

http://brightsolutions28.blogspot.com/

把自己的不幸化為別人的祝福

求不得苦

求完美=苦

無比較=空

比較=苦

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

matthew ma is a solutioner

10th march 2010

解決問題

不是製造紛爭

不是追究責任

身, 語, 意

mind

mood

heart

controls/affects our inputs/outputs (act, say and think) which controls/affects our interpretation on a matter or on a person which affects our judgement and actions and effects

inputs/outputs

chemicals, stimulants

mental/physical

interpretation controls what we do and how we feel : right and wrong

how we act, what we say and how we think

power is created if we synchronize our action, speech and thoughts

outer and inner factors:

how heavy the weight and how much we can take and keep moving forward

public recognition

majority and minority

trend, tradition and culture

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

了一

見, 做, 放下

"有"惑 choices

初發心-起心動念

有 0 1 無

有=煩惱=痛苦

可共苦-因無求

不可共富-因"有"-(有求)-便生苦

"無求"便不會"求不得"

便沒有"求不得苦"

Monday, March 8, 2010

Bright Solutions 28

we provide solutions mainly for:
charity
IT and web
tutoring and counseling
stories, theories and scripts creating
languages
connection
services
creative arts n innovative sciences with "very wild"
imaginations

藝術創作 X 創新科學 = “非常野”的想像

diamond=worries

the "fact"

affect your mood

想, 講與做

no "WHY"

精神寄托

富有才可慈悲

擁有=煩惱=痛苦

對與錯

沒有對

沒有錯

只是有因必有果

you will when you believe

Sunday, March 7, 2010

who taught Einstein E=mc square

who taught Gates how to create windows

who taught Buffett how to invest

who taught Mao how to rule China

who taught Ma how to be himself

實際上馬碩鴻是一個既純真又平凡的男孩...

matthew ma the great grandpa 馬太爺(yeah)

theory and practical

mental-theory

physical-practical

Friday, March 5, 2010

clever kid n stupid kid

A and B arrived in heaven before god

god said to them: there are 2 spaces left on earth

one will born to be a clever kid and the other will born to be a stupid kid

A's hand shoots up and said: i want to be the clever kid

the next thing they know is they came out from their mothers' wombs

the clever kid is very clever but his parents are very poor so he has to trick other 'stupid kids' for money

the stupid kid is very stupid but his parents are rich, he always got tricked but he thinks to himself 'poor guy that has to trick others everyday to fill his belly, i wish i can give him meals everyday of my life'

Saturday, February 27, 2010

rules are made to be improved

安全感自信心

解讀溝通 interpretation communication

Friday, February 26, 2010

the "baby learning theory" by matthew ma

physical:

in:

eyes-see-images

ears-hear-sound waves

nose-smell-scent

skin-feel

out:

mouth-voice-sound waves

feelings:

mental-software:

feelings from heart

thoughts from mind and feelings from mood

physical-hardware:

feelings from any parts from our body-stimulant (positive and negative) which results in a positive and negative physical and/or mental responses

baby learning theory:

receive sound waves from our ears, (at the same time) see images from our eyes, smell the scent from our nose and feel what we are feeling

we then connect what we receive from our eyes, nose, body and mind with the sound waves

next time when the same/simular situation happens before/on us, we relate to the stored data (sound waves, images, scent and feelings) in our brain, the brain then sends out messages to order our sound creating organ to reproduce the same sound waves as stored in our brain...and by improving and by correcting from feedback we then become better and better in our new languages

Thursday, February 25, 2010

藝術創作 X 創新科學 = “非常野”的想像

中庸隨和

因果义电

cover up

A: if you love yourself and care for your love ones then you need to be covered

B: if you love me and care for my love ones then get us covered

恆心

一步一步

聰明智慧般若

幻想vs現實

原因X動機

動機信念想法觀點角度決定行為後果

幻想vs現實

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

商務印書館網上書店

http://www.cp1897.com.hk/

故事書

http://www.cp1897.com.hk/books_authors.php?display_type=simpleness&page=2&number_per_page=30&sort_type=pudate_new&authors_code=A095996&keywords=葛雋

by Yentl Chen

即使五音不全，亦可引吭高歌
縱使命途坎坷，仍要活出真我
能用心唱一曲生命之歌，
這一生，不枉過！

空=無比較=無是非善惡

Thursday, February 18, 2010

do

this morning

in front of market

cn girl with handicap

past:

new yr day

senior aged gentleman

senior aged lady

lady with her kid

handicap gentleman

skin gentleman

old lady

flag

boro

monthly do

mc D:

mother n daughter

3 sisters

cn family

all sir

shell

atty

ann

done

christy

congi tall

william

poon

vege

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

器官捐贈

http://www.organdonation.gov.hk/

Sunday, February 14, 2010

生命與活著的意義

活著是為了'我愛的人'和為了'愛我的人'
生命是充滿意義和愛

Thursday, February 11, 2010

Number One in the World, 天下第一

Friday, February 5, 2010

方力申,鄧麗欣-好好戀愛(KTV)

吳雨霏 - 逼得太緊 KTV

Thursday, February 4, 2010

泳儿海鸣威我的回忆不是我的KTV

Saturday, January 30, 2010

黎明全知賢和記新幹線天山篇- 如果可以再見你-98

鄭融 - 借

Friday, January 29, 2010

links

http://www.rehabsociety.org.hk/rehabus.html

http://www.zenter.hk/#talking/look-for-opportunities

http://www.sina.com.cn/

forgive and forget

成是非

觸動輔導中心-情緒輔導

性治療

性教育

家庭治療

家庭教育

情緒管理

人際溝通

個人輔導

小組輔導

戀愛成長

婚前輔導

婚姻輔導

http://www.touchhk.hk/

查詢：2116 5733

觸動輔導中心-情緒輔導

性治療

性教育

家庭治療

家庭教育

情緒管理

人際溝通

個人輔導

小組輔導

戀愛成長

婚前輔導

婚姻輔導

http://www.touchhk.hk/

查詢：2116 5733

成是非

一刀入魔

面對/處理情緒與情緒問題

Thursday, January 28, 2010

文武

文-我不爭第一

武-我不會第二

文武

文-我不爭第一

武-我不會第二

有 vs 無 / 真 vs 假

真是假時假亦真

假作真時真亦假

有是無處無處有

無為有處有還無

真假無有確實難分

有 vs 無 / 真 vs 假

真是假時假亦真

假作真時真亦假

有是無處無處有

無為有處有還無

真假無有確實難分

春夏秋冬

春有百花秋有月

夏有涼風冬有雪

若無閒事掛心頭

便是人間好時節

春夏秋冬

春有百花秋有月

夏有涼風冬有雪

若無閒事掛心頭

便是人間好時節

才子佳人

鬼才

才子佳人

風流 vs 下流

扮極唔靚 vs 唔扮都靚

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

links for parents of gifted kids

http://www.rthk.org.hk/

http://mytv.tvb.com/

霎時感動
one from the heart stories

http://programme.tvb.com/lifestyle/onefromtheheart

watch some current affairs programmes with your kid
新聞精選
http://mytv.tvb.com/news?tab=programme_list
星期二檔案
http://programme.tvb.com/news/tuesdayreport
http://programme.tvb.com/news/tuesdayreport/episode/
新聞透視
http://programme.tvb.com/news/newsmagazine
http://programme.tvb.com/news/newsmagazine/episode/

星期日檔案

http://programme.tvb.com/news/sundayreport
http://programme.tvb.com/news/sundayreport/episode/

鏗鏘集
http://programme.rthk.org.hk/rthk/tv/programme.php?name=hkcc&p=858&m=archive&page=1&item=100

沒有牆的世界
http://programme.rthk.org.hk/rthk/tv/programme.php?name=wall_less&d=2010-01-10&p=4675&e=102339&m=episode
今日VIP
http://programme.tvb.com/variety/greenroom/

香港電台
電視節目重温
http://search.rthk.org.hk/search/index.php?submitform=1&queryType=arch_tv&queryStr=
RTHK radio one archive
http://search.rthk.org.hk/search/index.php?submitform=1&queryType=arch_radio1&queryStr=

IQ tests
Wechsler Adult Intelligence Scale (WAIS)
for age 6-16
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wechsler_Intelligence_Scale_for_Children
for age above 16
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wechsler_Adult_Intelligence_Scale

Stanford-Binet Intelligence Scales

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stanford-Binet_Intelligence_Scales

personality test info
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personality_test

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thematic_Apperception_Test
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rorschach_inkblot_test
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Myers-Briggs_Type_Indicator
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Keirsey_Temperament_Sorter
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/16PF_Questionnaire

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Learning_styles
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Objective_test
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Projective_test
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_testing
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forer_effect

work based personality test:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Morrisby_Profile

http://www.morrisby.com/

secondary schools with gifted ed

http://resources.edb.gov.hk/gifted/ps/Sec_List.htm

馮漢柱資優教育中心

http://www.edb.gov.hk/index.aspx?langno=2&nodeID=3625

http://resources.edb.gov.hk/gifted/ps/Pri_list.htm

http://resources.edb.gov.hk/gifted/ps/index_c.htm

a very simple questionnaire, do not depend wholly on it

thinking that you are and you actually are is completely different

http://www.edb.gov.hk/FileManager/TC/Content_3649/selection_12.pdf

http://www.edb.gov.hk/index.aspx?nodeID=3169&langno=2

http://www.edb.gov.hk/index.aspx?nodeID=2377&langno=2

http://resources.edb.gov.hk/gifted/ge_resource_bank/

http://www.edb.gov.hk/index.aspx?langno=2&nodeID=7437

call and find out more

http://resources.edb.gov.hk/gifted/ge_resource_bank/files/parenting/parenting_tips_tc.pdf

http://www.edb.gov.hk/index.aspx?nodeID=3171&langno=2
resource bank
http://www.edb.gov.hk/index.aspx?langno=2&nodeID=3614

characteristics of gifted children
http://www.edb.gov.hk/FileManager/TC/Content_3649/app_2.pdf

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

kristy and ceici

Today is Sunday.

Matthew is our English tutor.

There are two students today in the class.

Adrene is off sick today.

How have you been lately?

What kind of sports do you like to play?

Would you like to join me for afternoon tea?

I am hungry, I would like to go for lunch.

I am going to school after breakfast.

I am having sausages, eggs and butter with bread for breakfast everyday.

Chinese new year is coming, we are getting some new clothes and will get lots of red packets.

Summer is coming, I will go to the beach for sunbathing and swimming with my family and friends.