some can't stand the pressure and lead to some bad habbits and put a lot of pressure on themselves
key is:
if something is bothering you-quit it
we all looking for a comfort life
we studying hard to get good results and we become workaholic
see those pity people working in large firms and big businesses, money and power never satisfy them, they always hunger for more.
we chinese have a word for those people, direct translation is 'hungry ghosts in hell where their throat is tiny as needle and tummy is big as a drum'
you can see people in africa and china and india the happy index is much higher than people in england and US
by happy i mean positive happiness, not the negative happiness gained by beating people in a football or basketball game and humiliating people and not by harming or hurting others physically and mentally to proof that you are a so called 'champion' or 'winner' to gain happiness
in china, india and africa, we are happy and thanksgiving to have water to drink or food to eat, happiness is very basic
but in UK or US people are happy for a short while by going shopping, a new i phone gives them a buzz, a text message from a mate gives them a buzz, but all these are build on taking advantages of other countries less able than themselves
its a shame and its a pity
